After signing into Windows Live Messenger, you can begin to add, remove, block, or modify your contacts (Your contacts are the people that you've set up to communicate with using instant messaging.) .
In the main window for Windows Live Messenger, at the top of your contact list, click the Add a Contact button .
In the Instant Messaging Address box, type the e-mail address of the person you want to add.
If your contact does not have Windows Live Messenger, then type your message in the space that appears beneath Personal invitation.
In the Contact, Personal, Work, and Notes sections, add any additional information, such as a nickname or birthday.
To keep contact information current, select the Subscribe to updates for this contact check box. To learn more about this feature, click Learn about Windows Live Contacts.
Click Add contact.
Notes
If you are adding a Yahoo! Messenger instant message address, enter the full e-mail address.
You may see two entries for the same contact. This can occur when you add a Messenger contact who uses both Windows Live Messenger and Yahoo! Messenger. To determine if a contact is using Yahoo! Messenger, do one of the following:
Open a conversation window in Messenger. If there is a Yahoo! Messenger icon under the contact's display picture, they are using Yahoo! Messenger.
Hover your mouse over the contact's name in the main Messenger window. If their e-mail address is followed by Yahoo! Messenger, they are using Yahoo! Messenger.
When you send a message to a mobile device, Messenger first sends an invitation to the mobile device contact to exchange messages with you. The mobile device contact must accept the invitation before they can receive your message.